Haven’t you sometimes been attracted to a guy without understanding why?

Maybe it was the kind of guy you didn’t even want to be attracted to.

Why?

How can a modern, educated intelligent adult like you fall in love even when you resist the feeling?

 This can happen because our feelings of love and romantic attraction come from a sort of “hidden world.” That is, our subconscious, emotional minds. We don’t consciously control our deepest feelings.

There’s a lot of scientific evidence from neuroscience and fMRI studies that say we don’t consciously decide anything. Even a simple act, such as resting your hand on your desk, happens unconsciously deep in your brain a few seconds before you consciously have the thought to move your hand to a more comfortable position.

We don’t consciously choose to fall in. The whole appeal of reading romance novels, and the romantic subplots in countless other genres, is watching men and women fall in love despite their conscious desires. If you see a man and a woman hate each other in a Hollywood movie, you just know they’ll be lovers before the end of the flick.

The idea of consciously deciding to fall in love seems callous, cold and calculating.

Falling in Love in Real Life is More Like Thirst

You don’t decide to go without water. You just notice when you feel thirsty. And the stronger the feeling grows, the less you can ignore it.

The same thing happens in men. They “thirst” for a particular kind of experience in their relationships. It’s not as conscious as the need to hydrate their bodies, but it’s very important and more emotionally significant.

They appreciate the women who “quench” that kind of relationship thirst in men, and are, in a sense, emotionally addicted to that woman.

If you are romantically attracted to that “thirsty” man, wouldn’t you like to know what he’s thirsty for?

To go straight to the answer, click here now to watch this video.

That video reveals how you can trigger what he needs and craves just as a man wandering in a hot desert needs water.

In an emotional sense, modern life IS a hot desert that deprives men of the kind of romantic relationship they are thirsting for, deep within their hearts and brains.

Plus, that video shows you how to make sure you are the ONLY person in your man’s life who can satisfy this powerful longing.

The Man in Your Life Can’t and Won’t Tell You What He “Thirsts” for Most From Your Romantic Relationship

He’s embarrassed. What’s worse, is admitting to this desire would actually moves him farther away from what he wants.

I’ll explain . . .

Think of a woman who’s frustrated because her boyfriend/lover/partner never does anything romantic. She’s so frustrated she finally has a “talk” with him, and explains how she wants him to romance and pursue her. She wants to feel wanted.

He says she’s being unreasonable. What’s missing from their relationship? She tells him one example. He could give her flowers occasionally. She would really appreciate a few simple things like flowers.

So, the next day, he sends her flowers. But it doesn’t work. How romantic does it feel to receive flowers when you had to ask for them?

Men are the same, only they have a relationship need that’s totally different. And if you supply it just because they ask for it, it won’t feel genuine, so it won’t really fulfill their need.

Men have insatiable thirst for your admiration.

But they feel they have to earn it. If you just say “Sure, Joe, I admire you,” that obviously rings false.

If they have to ask you to admire them, then obviously you don’t. They haven’t earned that admiration.

It’s like trying to become popular by telling everyone how cool you are. It doesn’t work. Truly cool people would never tell anyone they’re cool.

Your man will not feel like your hero until you tell him. Not in so many words. “Joe, you’re my hero,” sounds kind of weird. But you do it through your non-verbal language. You tell him by what you say and do.

By now you’re probably thinking you can understand your man’s need for admiration. Women enjoy admiration too.

But you need to know. Admiration is not just something men’s egos enjoy. They can’t continue to feel “in love” without receiving it.

For a man, the biggest romance killer is not feeling needed. He needs to feel he is useful, a provider. He wanted to earn your admiration by his ability to provide, to be of value.

If he’s not needed, he’s not a real man. He’s emasculated. That turns off his romantic drive, his love. How can he feel he’s really loved if you also don’t admire him for his ability to provide, to be of value?

And the most frustrating part for you? You can’t just GIVE him that admiration he craves. Remember, he must feel he’s earned your admiration. It only feels real if he feels he deserves your trust and respect.

But there’s good news. Once you understand this about men, you know how to set him up for success. It’s fun and easy.

Just let him be your hero. Find ways. Sure, you’re a strong, modern and capable woman, not a princess in a tower, but you’re human. You don’t live a perfect life without problems a man can help you with.

There is an art to doing this so it makes him crazy about you.

You’ve seen relationships where the woman had the man wrapped around her proverbial pinkie, and you probably wondered why and how – what did he see in her?

As a relationship coach, I have seen what works and what doesn’t. It boils down to this:

You Must Trigger His Hero Instinct

Do that, what happens next will astonish you.

He’ll love you so much. He’ll be so attentive it will shock you. He’ll suddenly become interested in a committed, long-term relationship because you’re supplying the emotional need he craves. You will never want your relatioship to go back to where it was before.

This hero instinct drives men unconsciously to people who make him feel like a hero.

And that is a hundred times true about romantic relationships.

For romantic relationships, this entire concept is life-changing.

It’s so important, to make sure you understand it thoroughly, I created an entire video presentation.

Click here now to watch the video so you can fully understand and use this secret as your own.

It’s One Thing to Trigger His Hero Instinct One Time

Doing it repeatedly requires more finesse – a few tricks and tips.

These days, modern women don’t need someone to “rescue” them. Chances are, you resist the whole idea.

However, men do still need to rescue someone, especially the woman they love. It’s built into their DNA. They seek out romantic partners who allow them to feel like a hero, or at least a useful provider.

Genetically, the difference between men and women is tiny. But this one difference is huge. He is drawn to any woman who allows him to play the role role of a hero. His instincts naturally “thirst” for that.

And there’s a really cool part. He doesn’t know and understand this, not consciously. It’s not taught in “Man Only School.” He doesn’t know why he feels such a strong attraction to you. He’ll just it down to “love.” And so it is.

Which is why this skill flies “under the radar.” It triggers a man’s attraction to you at a subconscious level.
If a buddy wants to know what he sees in you, he can’t answer.

Hidden parts of our brains and minds drive our romantic feelings. Now you understand one important part of your man’s inner mind and emotional needs. And you can actually control his feelings by how you choose to trigger them.

And once you understand what’s going on, you can see it happening all around you.

It’s a pattern in the way men and women interact. Other relationship coaches have known about it, but they didn’t recognize how incredibly powerful it is. It’s a trigger that drives his thirst for romance.

How Do You Use This Trigger to Create Passion and a Lasting Commitment in Your Romantic Relationship?

The simplest method is to speak to his natural drive to provide for his woman. He desires to serve, love and protect. He wants to be your hero.

Sound like fun? Sound like what your relationship needs? If so, click here now to learn more about this relationship enhancement tool.

Once you learn it, you can use if for the rest of your life.

If you’re not in a relationship now, you want to learn it so you attract the man you want to you – and in a way that makes him commit to you even after the initial fun and excitement of the “getting to know you” phase of the relationship fades.

Why not learn how to translate your needs and desires (we all have them) into triggers for his hero instinct?

Then you can relax into the warmth he can show only after a woman has triggered his hero instinct. You enjoy the romantic reward of knowing exactly how to quench his “thirst.”

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