Don’t you just hate your best friend – the one who has the perfect boyfriend who keeps proving his undying devotion to her?

He’s not movie star-handsome, just ordinary, but he is entirely wrapped up in your friend.

You’re happy for her, but . . . you’re also deeply jealous. You hate to see them together. He pays so much attention to what she needs. They’re so close, they know what each other is thinking and feeling, without talking, like their love makes them telepathic. They hug each other so tightly . . . it makes you hurt deep inside.

Because your man doesn’t treat you like that.

He’s not a bad guy, not bad at all. He’s wonderful. But . . . he treats you like a woman he’s gotten used to.
He never looks at you like he’s wondering how he got lucky enough to have a terrific woman like you.

Your girlfriend’s boyfriend does. You see it in his eyes when he watches her.

Pleasure radiates from his smile whenever he looks at her.

“Does your boyfriend have any brothers?” you ask your girlfriend when your boyfriends gone into the kitchen for a beer. You make it sound like a joke, but – of course – it’s not. Not really.

She laughs, then, surprisingly, she gives you a quick, intimate wink.

“His brother’s not what you need,” she says.

You can feel the shock and surprise showing on your face, and hope nobody else notices.

Your best friend leans towards you, then glances around to make sure nobody else is listening. “You want to hear the secret?”

You gulp, but eagerly nod your head.

She whispers. “At the beginning, our relationship was nothing special. I didn’t even bring him around much. Remember? We were just like every other couple. But then I found this crazy idea . . . from James Bauer. He’s a relationship coach Oprah ought to be on her TV show. His idea – it’s how to unlock men.”

You’re nodding your head eagerly. You want to beg her, ask her, what’s the secret? You do remember when your girlfriend first brought this boyfriend around to parties, and they didn’t act like anything special. You’d forgotten, just assumed it was because they hadn’t really fallen in love yet, not like now.

“Are you ready?” your friend asks.

For passionate love? For a man who’s truly devoted to me and our relationship? Who knows me so well he seems to read my mind. “Hell yes,” you say.

“Okay, then listen.”

Women All Around the World Make One Big Mistake with Men

It’s not your fault. You’re following the “common” wisdom, even though it’s not as wise as it is common.

It says men want exceptional women – with exceptional bodies, of course.

When you see a woman with a man following her like a puppy, you’re sure she has something you don’t.

Yet . . .

That’s dead wrong.

That woman is no more exceptional than you.

She just knows the secret to inspiring undying devotion in men.

She has a special understanding of men.

Such women either figure it out on their own, or stumble on it by accident. They see “common wisdom” doesn’t work.

She realizes what matters most to a man is NOT what he sees when he looks at her.

What matters most to a man is how he looks when he sees himself – reflected in her eyes.

Men Fall for a Woman Because of How She Makes Him Feel

When a woman makes a man feel like a hero, she inspires his undying loyalty.

He can’t stop himself. He doesn’t want to, because he wants to feel like a hero.

Most women don’t have that effect on him.

Most women make him feel dumb, like he’s just a clueless man. He feels awkward and clumsy around them. And if they like him, they look after him, which makes him feel weak and less of a man.

How many women look to him? How many really respect him?

He’s lucky if that’s one woman, and he’ll love her with undying devotion.

So, how do you make your man feel like a hero?

Does he have to save you from a fire-breathing dragon or rescue children from a burning house?

No – part of the problem with modern day life for men is such situations are rare.

No, to make your man feel like a hero, start doing one simple, easy thing.

To Inspire His Undying Devotion to You, Thank Him Warmly for Every Single Thing He Does for You

Got you a drink?

Thank him.

Cleared the dishes off the table?

Thank him.

Drove you to a meeting?

Thank him.

You may not see these “little” things as so important, but, remember, these days fire-breathing dragons and sabre-tooth tigers are in short supply (fortunately). He can’t save you from them, but he can pick you up at the airport when you return from a business meeting too exhausted to drive yourself home.

Maybe he dropped everything to change your flat tire. Maybe he ran for ice. Maybe his advice helped you make a difficult career-related decision.

We all tend to take such things for granted. But we shouldn’t. Nobody is obligated to go out of their way to help you. Having someone you can rely on is a small miracle.

The More You Show How Much You Appreciate Him, the More He Appreciates You

Too many women believe they earn a man’s appreciation by doing things FOR him.

But the best way is appreciate whatever he does for you, no matter how small.

That triggers his “Hero Instinct.”

Click here now to learn more about the Hero Instinct

The key to inspiring his undying devotion lies in how you respond to what he does for you.

Did he give you a passionate huge?

Wiggle with contentment.

Did he watch a “chick flick” with you?

Kiss him to show your appreciation.

Reward the little things he does, and he’ll keep striving to please you.

He’s your hero.

So he does what heroes do.

And There’s More

You can do many things to set off his hero instinct:

* Phrases you can say

* Texts you can send

* Seemingly casual, little requests you can make to remind him he’s your hero.

He’s valuable to you. He’s useful. His life has meaning. He feels like a real man.

Added together, all these will trigger his hero instinct one hundred times more powerfully. They’ll constantly reinforce it, making it stronger and stronger, and therefore irresistible.

No man can resist the woman who makes him feel like a hero.

Therefore, if you want a man’s undying devotion like your girlfriend has, learning these emotional trigger points will pay off in love and happiness for the rest of your life.

Now that you know what men really want, take your relationship skills to the next level. You can master this powerful technique by watching this short video.