The best way to catch his eye is to look into his eyes, and give him a deep, lingering gaze.

Combining falling in love through eye contact sounds like something you’d hear in a love song – but it’s also real.

After all, almost everything you know about other peoples comes from what you see.

In casual conversation, people look at each other’s eyes around 45% of the time.

But couples having an intimate conversation look into each other’s eyes around 75% of the time.

Do you love him because you look deeply into his eyes? Or does he look deeply into your eyes because he loves you.

Scientific research supports both ideas. It’s a two-way street.

When you make that initial eye contact with him, you’re showing him you’re open.

When you hold that gaze without looking away you’re signaling him you are confident.

That makes you both feel connected, even before you say, “Hello.”

And if he won’t return your look? Well, that tells you something you want to know right away.

Looking deep into his eyes is not only a good way to attract a man you’ve just met, it’s an excellent way to hold on to your current love, and to rekindle his interest in you. Remind him what he saw in you when you first met.

In either case, take the time to stop and really pay attention to him.

A real, honest soulful gaze requires us to pay attention to the other person. Sometimes get too busy in daily life to do that, and yet everybody hungers for that attention.

Start giving it to him on a regular basis, and he’ll return it with interest.

Making eye contact with him shows you are vulnerable, open. Holding his gaze without looking away lets him know you are confident and gives him a way to feel connected, even before you speak.

There’s nothing like a lingering gaze to attract and hold a man.

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